6/10/22

But what if i get my period?

Let’s normalize this right away—because this question comes up all the time, even if people feel a little shy asking it.

About once a month (which feels fitting, honestly), I’ll get a message that starts something like:
“Okay this might be awkward but…”

And here’s the thing—it’s not awkward on my end at all. I’m a woman. I get it. Bodies do what bodies do, and your cycle doesn’t suddenly pause just because you have a photoshoot scheduled.

What is totally normal, though, is that it might feel awkward for you to bring it up. There’s this moment of panic like, “Wait… what do I do now? Do I cancel? Is this a problem?”

So let’s walk through it in a way that actually makes you feel prepared instead of stressed.

First—Do We Still Shoot?

In most cases? Yes, absolutely. We still shoot.

For the majority of clients, being on your period doesn’t affect the session at all. The way I pose and photograph you is intentionally designed to highlight your curves, elongate your body, and create beautiful lines—not to expose anything you’re worried about.

When I’m shooting, I’m typically working from angles that look like:

  • Slightly above or level with your body

  • Focused on curves, shape, and movement

  • Designed to flatter—not expose

So when I say I don’t “see anything down there,” I mean it. The posing naturally keeps everything covered in a way that still feels elevated and stunning.

To give you some perspective—I’ve seen maybe one tampon string in over a decade of shooting. That’s it. And even then, it’s something easily adjusted, repositioned, or edited if needed.

Let’s Talk Comfort (Because That’s the Real Factor)

The bigger question isn’t “Can we shoot?”
It’s “How do you feel?”

Because your experience matters way more than the calendar.

Here’s how to think about it:

  • If you’re feeling totally fine, maybe just a little bloated but still excited → Go for it.

  • If you’re someone who gets mild symptoms → You’ll likely be completely okay.

  • If you know your first day is rough (cramps, fatigue, low energy, “don’t talk to me” vibes) → That’s when we pause and reassess.

There’s no benefit to pushing through a session if your body is asking you to rest.

Real Talk: You Might Still Feel Amazing

This part surprises people.

Even if you’re on your period, once you’re in hair and makeup, in the right lighting, being guided through poses—you may completely forget about it.

Why?

Because your focus shifts.

You’re not thinking about your cycle anymore. You’re thinking:

  • “Wait… I actually look really good.”

  • “How am I doing this?”

  • “Okay… I kind of love this.”

And that energy? That’s what shows up in your photos.

Simple Ways to Feel More Prepared

If you know your shoot might overlap with your cycle, a little planning goes a long way.

Things that help:

  • Wearing a tampon, cup, or period underwear you trust

  • Bringing extra supplies (just in case—it gives peace of mind)

  • Staying hydrated to reduce bloating

  • Choosing outfits that make you feel secure and confident

You don’t need to overthink it—just set yourself up so you feel comfortable walking in.

When It Does Make Sense to Reschedule

There are moments where rescheduling is the better option—and that’s completely okay.

You might consider moving your session if:

  • You know your first day hits you hard every time

  • You’re dealing with intense cramps or fatigue

  • You feel mentally or emotionally off

This experience is supposed to feel empowering—not like something you’re pushing through.

And trust me, a good photographer will always prioritize your comfort over keeping a date on the calendar.

If You’re Worried—Plan Ahead

If this is something you’re thinking about ahead of time, you can absolutely plan around your cycle.

A simple trick?
Look at your calendar, count your cycle days, and choose a window where you typically feel your best.

That way, you walk into your session feeling confident and physically comfortable.

Final Thought: Your Body Isn’t a Problem

Your period isn’t something that disqualifies you from showing up and feeling beautiful.

It’s just part of being human.

And the truth is—whether you shoot that day or decide to reschedule, the goal stays the same:

You feeling confident, comfortable, and completely in control of your experience.

So don’t stress. Don’t overthink it.

You’ve got options.

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